Self esteem test @ Reward Me

Do you underestimate yourself?

Many people have a much harsher view of themselves than others do. Are you one of them?


1) I avoid trying things, which I think might be too difficult for me for fear of failure:

a) Most of the time.
b) Hardly ever or never.
c) Some of the time.

2) I feel:

a) Happy when people compliment me.
b) Uncomfortable when complimented, but I am able to accept compliments.
c) Almost completely unable to accept compliments. I often think that people are not telling the truth when they compliment me.

3) I leave things to the last minute because I am worried about not doing them well enough:

a) Occasionally.
b) Hardly ever.
c) Often.

4) When I was at school I wouldn’t put up my hand in class even if I thought I knew the answer. Now in meetings, I keep quiet even if I have something worth-while to share:

a) This is very familiar to me.
b) I have never done this.
c) I sometimes act in this way.

5) I have been told that I am my own harshest critic:

a) Once or twice.
b) Never.
c) Several times.

6) I feel ‘less than’ when comparing myself to the looks, brains, accomplishments of others:

a) Sometimes.
b) Regularly.
c) Hardly ever.

7) I generally:

a) Like the clothes I wear every day.
b) Don’t have strong feelings about my clothes. They are just there to cover me.
c) Feel unattractive in my clothes.

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8) I go along with the decisions of others to keep the peace:

a) Sometimes. I don’t feel comfortable when I give my opinion, but am still able to give some opinions.
b) Never. I am always happy to give my opinions and participate in decision-making.
c) Yes. I am afraid to offend others by giving my opinion.

9) It is easier for me to remember the negatives that people have said about me than the positives:

a) Much easier! What positives?
b) I can remember positives, but it is easier to call up negatives.
c) No, I focus on the positives and don’t dwell on criticisms.

10) I feel ______________ in my body:

a) At ease.
b) Very uncomfortable.
c) Okay some of the time.

Now add up your score

1 a 5 b 1 c 3
2 a 1 b 3 c 5
3 a 3 b 1 c 5
4 a 5 b 1 c 3
5 a 3 b 1 c 5
6 a 3 b 5 c 1
7 a 1 b 3 c 5
8 a 3 b 1 c 5
9 a 5 b 3 c 1
10 a 1 b 5 c 3

Mostly 1s

Your view of yourself is probably consistent with the way that others see you. You have a positive and healthy self-esteem and are not overly critical of yourself.

Mostly 3s

You are on the cusp here. Sometimes you feel adequate in yourself and not ‘less than’ others, but occasionally you have pockets of feeling devalued. You need to watch that you don’t fall into the unconstructive spiral of low self-esteem.

Mostly 5s

You tend to judge yourself harshly against others, and to hold onto any criticism. You spend a lot of time comparing yourself to others and finding yourself wanting. You don’t feel good enough in many ways. You may also tend to pass up on doing things because you are scared of not succeeding.

How to boost your self-esteem

  • Inaccurately negative self-perceptions are likely to be greater with people who are more anxious, and with those who have low self-esteem. If these problems are long-standing, psychotherapy may be useful in trying to improve the way you feel.
  • It may also be useful to keep a collection of compliments given to you by others in a little book. Anything affirming, approving or admiring can be written in the book. It is then available as a resource for you to look at when you are feeling bad about yourself.

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jaanuli

jaanuli

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i like the idea. i know it will help me in feeling + ve . what an idea ?? p &g

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hinan

hinan

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I like the idea of collecting and noting the compliments. I know it will help me in feeling positive whenever I'll feel low

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